Female boss to male junior officer – part 2
Second scenario; grown from part1. You have worked with her on your jobs in Kenya for some time, and one fine morning in the middle of nowhere it hits you that she is interested in you not just for your brains, but for the kind of help that would cause the hubby to purchase the services of a hit squad.
The best way forward, is to sit up straight in your chair, and watch. Start to really watch. There are two things that are possible; either the woman really does like you in a decent way and simply enjoys working with you. In that case, if you introduce vibe tending towards a physical relationship, you have messed the chemistry and you immediately jeopardize your jobs in Kenya.
The second thing that is possible is that she really does need some help. (The older women will kill me after this, but too bad – it is the truth.)
If you read she is serious, after keen observation over time, tempt the discussion with questions.
If she is serious for sure and your ethics, and morality are not in your way, plan your way to some juicy perks which means that you give her what she wants, but at a price.
Do not get out of it empty handed, but do not ever, no matter how drunk you shall ever be, talk about it as long as you work in that firm. If she is married – it could cost you your life. If she is single… then well… who knows. There are benefits to being Wambui Otieno's hubby – if you catch my drift.
Meanwhile, also create a departure strategy to a better paying job as soon as possible. Those on-the-job alliances never last. The other morally boosted position is, to make friends with her and kill your frustrations elsewhere. These jobs in Kenya are tough to come by and you may want to keep yours long.
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